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Books That Teach
The Counselor's Corner
November
 
September 2007 - Respect
October 2007 - Responsibility
November 2007 - Citizenship
December 2007 - Caring
January 2008 - Fairness
February 2008 - Trustworthiness
March 2008 - Respect
April 2008 - Responsibility
May 2008 - Citizenship
 
CITIZENSHIP
Quote of the Month: There is a big difference between what you have a right to do and what is right to do. - Potter Stewart
RELATED LINKS:
The Do-Gooder's Guide pdf / Volunteer Matters

 
Citizenship
Citizenship is about making whatever organization you're a part of better because you're there. Ask your student(s) questions like:
  • How are the Scouts better because you're a member?
  • How is your family better because you're in it?
  • How is your sports team better because you're a team mate?
  • What strengths do you bring to a group?
  • What areas of growth do you need to work on?
  • How would Westwood be different without you?
  • How is Westwood better because you're here?
  • Good citizens do more than just show up, they contribute in a positive way wherever they go.

Military Honors
Our focus on Citizenship wouldn't be complete without honoring the heroic efforts of our Military personnel. Whether you're reading a patriotic story like America's White Table by Margot Theis-Raven or writing a thank-you note to a soldier on active duty, pausing to remember and support these heroes is important not just around Veteran's Day, but year round.

Ask your student(s) to research each branch of the Military and find out what its motto is. For example, which branch charges, "Be All That You Can Be," and does it currently use that same slogan? You can also look for the musical selection that corresponds with each branch. Ask, for instance, which branch of the military uses the song Anchors Aweigh? Students can even take a virtual tour online of an Academy like West Point or the Naval Academy. Or study your ancestry and see if you have any Veterans in your family tree.

Another way to show your citizenship is to become pen pals with a soldier. Whether they're on an American base or stationed in Iraq, our soldiers LOVE to receive mail from their littlest fans. There are many websites which make it easy to connect in this way; the two that come to mind are
http://www.amillionthanks.org and http://www.letssaythanks.com.

Visit them for ways in which to show your support with a card, a letter, or a care package.

Using Books About Heroes
There's nothing more powerful than the study of heroes to enforce character traits that we're trying to build in tomorrow's leaders. Whether the hero did something bad that he rectified - like George Washington and the cherry tree incident - or whether she's known strictly for her good deeds - like Betsy Ross sewing the flag - reading about and discussing these heroes in history is a promising practice.

If a biography won't keep your student's attention, try a fictional picture book that references a hero as seen in the illustrated picture book, Liar, Liar, Pants on Fire by Diane DeGroat.

Synopsis: When Mrs. Byrd tells Gilbert's class that they're going to be doing plays about famous people, Gilbert's heart sinks. Plays make him nervous; what if he forgets his lines? So when he lands the role of George Washington in a play about the cherry tree, he's determined to do it without any mistakes. But when his most important prop goes missing right before the show, Gilbert loses his cool and looks to blame anyone but himself. He learns a valuable lesson about trustworthiness and citizenship.

Ask follow-up questions like:
1. What bad choice did Gilbert make?
2. What could Gilbert have done differently?
3. How does what Gilbert did seem similar to what George Washington did?
4. What can you learn from George Washington and Gilbert?
5. Why is it important that good citizens also be trustworthy?
6. In what ways do you show citizenship?

Concerning Citizenship

Here are some situations for you to think about, talk about, write about, or act out. They're fun because YOU get to decide what happens next!

1. Your neighbor's dog keeps barking and you can tell that the pet is not being properly cared for. Would setting the dog free be the act of a good citizen? As a good citizen, do you have the responsibility to do something? What, if anything, could you do?

2. You see that your classmates are throwing paper in the trash rather than into the recycle bin. What would a good citizen do about that? What might happen if we stopped recycling? What could happen if we recycled more? Next time you're in the car, look for places that take recycling. Have you noticed that HEB now has big recycle bins out in front? They will even take your PLASTIC - now that's good citizenship!

3. Federal lawmakers often discuss changing the age that someone earns the right to vote. Do you know what the legal voting age is? Do you think it should be 18 or 21? Or maybe you think 16-year-olds or 13-year-olds ought to be able to vote. Defend your opinion.

4. Studying heroes is a great way to see citizenship in action. What exactly is a "hero"? What kinds of people are heroes? Are heroes extra intelligent? Extra strong? Extra brave? Larger than life? Is a hero a hero all of the time? Who are your heroes?

5. You and your mom are shopping and you have 14 items in your cart. You're in a hurry because you're going to be late for soccer practice. Is it okay to get into the checkout lane that's reserved for customers with 10 items or less? What if it said 13 items or less? Why or why not?

6. Good citizens try to be part of a solution when they see a problem. Is there a problem that's been bothering you? Look around your neighborhood. Are there some weeds that need your attention or some trash in the ditches? Could your neighbor use some help raking his leaves? There might be an elderly friend nearby who just needs a visit now and again. Maybe there's something at school you could help fix. Choose a problem, do some research, find an adult to help you out, and carry out your solution. It's that simple!

The Five-Finger Process

Sometimes, just making a promise out loud can be the push-into-action that we need. Try this easy five-finger promise with someone you trust and see what a difference a few small gestures can make.

Stand facing that someone. Put your right hand in the air as if making a pledge, and have them put up their left hand so your fingers and thumb mirror on another and are touching. You must each think of five easy things that you can do in the upcoming few weeks to put citizenship into action and then take turns promising them aloud. One for each finger and the thumb. For example: I will recycle all of my plastic and paper, I will pick up any litter that I see, I will go to vote, I will donate some food to a pantry, I will obey the speed limit. Small steps in the right direction, five for each of you, that add up to big things for our world. Once you've promised, all that's left is to do it.

Try it with two or three friends, and see what happens. Have your students try it with their classmates or your children try it with their siblings. Imagine the world-changing potential - if everyone grabbed someone to make a five-finger promise this month!

Good Citizens ....
  • do their share to make their school and community better.
  • cooperate.
  • stay informed and vote.
  • are good neighbors.
  • obey laws and rules and respect authority.
  • protect the environment.  

 

Character Counts at Westwood! One pillar at a time, we are laying the foundation for a lifetime of good character choices. It is our goal to build 'value-able' citizens who will eventually become tomorrow's leaders. The Six Pillars of Character are integrated into everything we do.

We hope that the following list will help you acquaint yourself with the Pillars and what they encompass so that you can help us by reinforcing them at home.

Westwood Pledge

I will make good choices today.

I will respect myself, my teachers, and others.

And give my best effort in all I do.

 
Trustworthiness  February / August
Trustworthy students. . . . . 
  • are honest; don't deceive, cheat, or steal.
  • are reliable and do what they say they'll do.
  • have the courage to do the right thing.
  • have a good reputation.
  • are loyal - stand by their family, friends and country. 
Respect September / March
Respectful students. . . . . 
  • treat others with respect, follow the Golden Rule.
  • are tolerant of differences.
  • use good manners, not bad language.
  • are considerate of the feelings of others.
  • don't threaten, hit or hurt anyone.
  • deal peacefully with anger, insults and disagreements. 
Responsibility  October / April
Responsible students. . . . . 
  • do what they're supposed to do.
  • persevere and keep on trying!
  • always do their best.
  • use self-control and are self-disciplined.
  • think before they act and consider the consequences.
  • are accountable for their choices. 
Fairness  January / July
Fair students. . . . . 
  • play by the rules, take turns and share.
  • are open minded and listen to others.
  • don't take advantage of others.
  • don't blame others carelessly. 
Caring  December /J une
Caring students. . . . . 
  • are kind and compassionate and show they care.
  • express gratitude.
  • forgive others.
  • help people in need. 
Citizenship  November / May
Good Citizens. . . . . 
  • do their share to make their school and community better.
  • cooperate.
  • stay informed and vote.
  • are good neighbors.
  • obey laws and rules and respect authority.
  • protect the environment.  

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